Kay dont feel bad I am sure all agree that the only way that this should be done is with a vote. So lets give it a few days perhaps to the weekend and see how it all goes. I think it is impotant to pick your prefered date to get a true view.
We all have reasons for our own dates and it is important to do what is right for you it aint going to hurt no one and you have to look out for your best interests.
Sorry if anyone feels I am interfearing but I am a strong beliver in parity and am just tring to help get a date as I cant wait.
I would also like to say lets not forget our friends in the north who would find such a trip a real mission. Perhaps a few of you could get together and we could have a web link or somehing.